Dear Roe: I’m nevertheless interested in my ex but I’m perhaps perhaps not searching for a relationship

Dear Roe,

I’m a 33-year-old guy and I happened to be formerly with a female for just two years inside our mid-20s. I moved away, but have recently moved back home after we broke up. My ex and I also have begun chatting over social media marketing therefore we finished up on an organization particular date together because of some acquaintances that are mutual. It’s not too there is extortionate flirting or anything tangible, but we got on great, there is no awkwardness and We nevertheless find her attractive. I understand she’s single and I’m wondering if it may be feasible to start out a “no-strings-attached” situation with her? I’m still adjusting to being home and beginning a brand new task therefore I’m perhaps not searching for a relationship at this time, it is that possible having an ex? (this really is all presently hypothetical because We don’t determine if she’s interested, but We thought i ought to determine exactly what i would like before ramping up the flirting etc.)

To begin with, kudos on making the aware choice to find your motivations out before acting. All many times, individuals start earnestly flirting with, and on occasion even earnestly pursuing, some body before realising they’re perhaps perhaps not emotionally prepared or interested, and even though understandable and typical, this thoughtless type of flirting can occasionally result in confusion or hurt feelings. Read more →