Unfortunately, caring him or the situation about him is not going change. The next phase him go and move on for you is to let. Ideally meet some guy that is available.
However, like many, it seems as you aren’t willing to accept the facts of exactly what he could be telling you, which will be that he’s perhaps not prepared. Also their actions correspond for this reality. Exactly what enables you to are thought by you realize him much better than he understands himself?